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22
Mar

An Encouraging Report

2010 at 12:21 pm   |   by Nicole Whitacre
Filed under Series The 5 O'Clock Club

5 oclock clubOver the weekend we reached a milestone: 1000 members of The 5 O’Clock Club. Our 1000th member was Julie from Elmwood Park, IL. We didn’t offer a prize because we never anticipated this many members; but we think a prize is in order. So Julie, we’d love to get you an ESV Study Bible.

We’re most encouraged by what 1000 members represents—God’s grace at work in the lives of so many women to want to rise early to seek Him. We pray you are encouraged too!

20
Mar

52home

2010 at 12:08 am   |   by Janelle Bradshaw
Filed under Biblical Womanhood 52home

2:55 p.m. Jack asked to draw on my chalkboard…

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19
Mar

Friday Funnies

2010 at 5:15 pm   |   by Nicole Whitacre
Filed under Fun Stuff Friday Funnies

As a pastor, my husband Steve often interviews prospective church members. Part of our church’s membership process includes filling out a brief profile before the pastoral interview. Recently, just before meeting with a couple who wanted to join the church, Steve sent me an email:

Doing a new members interview in an hour, I’m reviewing their file. 

Wife’s membership profile form reads like this:

Place of Employment: At home mom.
Brief Job Description: You name it, I do it.

I’m glad to say, this witty mom is a member of our church now.

Hope you all have a wonderful weekend!

Nicole for the girltalkers

 

18
Mar

52home

2010 at 9:59 pm   |   by Janelle Bradshaw
Filed under Biblical Womanhood 52home

6:52 p.m.





 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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18
Mar

Going Bye-Bye

2010 at 5:25 pm   |   by Janelle Bradshaw
Filed under Motherhood Young Children

As any mom with small children will tell you, “getting out the door” is an exercise in craziness and chaos. Screaming fits and blow-out diapers, lost keys and runaway children all wait for the moment you want to go somewhere.
 
Just. Get. In. The. Car.
 
But when my four-year-old daughter Caly was younger, I read a suggestion from one mom about training your children to sit quietly in one spot. I decided this would come in handy for when I was trying to leave the house.
 
mj sittingI worked with Caly and she soon got the hang of it. And a few weeks ago, I began to teach eighteen-month-old MJ.
 
Every morning after breakfast we have “sit time.” Even though MJ only says a handful of words, she knows exactly what I’m talking about. She and Caly go to the stairs and sit on separate steps until the timer goes off. We started with one minute and increased the time bit by bit as the weeks went on.
 
It’s hilarious to watch. Every muscle in MJ’s body wants to stand up, but she’s learning to sit still and can now do so for a grand total of five minutes! Caly loves “being a good example” and showing MJ how to obey. We cheer and clap when that little timer goes off.
 
This little exercise makes the “getting out the door” process a lot more peaceful. The girls sit quietly while I search for my lost keys! But more importantly, MJ is learning obedience and self-control—the peaceful fruit of which I pray she’ll reap for the rest of her life.

17
Mar

52home

2010 at 8:15 pm   |   by Janelle Bradshaw
Filed under Biblical Womanhood 52home

10:19 a.m.

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17
Mar

A Loving Rebuke

2010 at 2:34 pm   |   by Carolyn Mahaney
Filed under Biblical Womanhood

“Jesus said to him, “’If it is my will that he remain until I come, what is that to you? You follow me!’” John 21:22

At first glance, Jesus’ question—“what is that to you?”—seems a little harsh.

He says to Peter, in effect: “What I have planned for John is none of your business. Stop comparing yourself to him and follow me.”

Jesus allowed Peter no room for self-pity. He gave Peter no time to indulge his thoughts or feelings. Instead, He rebuked him for comparing himself to John.

We might be tempted to think that this is a rather insensitive and poorly-timed response from our Lord. I mean, Peter had just learned he was going to die a martyr’s death—doesn’t he need a little sympathy, compassion, understanding?

After all, a little sympathy and understanding is what we want when we think others have it better than we do. We want others to feel as sorry for us as we feel for ourselves.

And yet, this rebuke was the most loving thing Jesus could have said to Peter.

two blocksFor Peter to turn his attention away from the Savior and look at John was the worst thing he could do. For Peter to compare his situation side by side with John’s situation was the most detrimental action he could take.

Sinful comparison is a futile and destructive exercise. It robs us of joy. It destroys our peace. It plunges us into despair and self-pity. It distorts our view of a wise and loving God.

And Jesus loved Peter, so He protected Peter from the trap of sinful comparison. He wants to protect us as well.

16
Mar

52home

2010 at 5:13 pm   |   by Janelle Bradshaw
Filed under Biblical Womanhood 52home

10:51 a.m. The Best Part Of Coloring

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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16
Mar

What About John?

2010 at 1:29 pm   |   by Carolyn Mahaney
Filed under Biblical Womanhood

In John 21:18, Peter got some horrible news:

“Jesus said to [Peter]… ‘Truly, truly, I say to you, when you were young, you used to dress yourself and walk wherever you wanted, but when you are old, you will stretch out your hands, and another will dress you and carry you where you do not want to go.’ (This he said to show by what kind of death he was to glorify God.) And after saying this he said to him, ‘Follow me.’”

Jesus told Peter that he would eventually die by crucifixion. How did Peter respond?

“Peter turned and saw the disciple whom Jesus loved following them, the one who had been reclining at table close to him….When Peter saw him, he said to Jesus, ‘Lord, what about this man?’” (v. 20-21)

Peter “turned” away from the Lord and “saw” his fellow disciple, John.

He began to sinfully compare himself to John.

He began to measure his situation against John’s.

Maybe he thought something like…

Is John going to get a better deal than me? After all, he did get to sit next to Jesus at the Last Supper, and he seems to have an especially close relationship with the Lord.

Does this mean that the Lord is going to let John off with an easy death? Will he die peacefully in his sleep while I have to die a martyr’s death?

Peter couldn’t contain himself anymore. He blurted out, “Lord, what about this man?”

We’ll consider our Lord’s shocking answer when we continue our series.

15
Mar

52home

2010 at 8:26 pm   |   by Janelle Bradshaw
Filed under Biblical Womanhood 52home

5:16 p.m.

 

 

 

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15
Mar

The Snare of Compare

2010 at 12:35 pm   |   by Carolyn Mahaney
Filed under Biblical Womanhood

two blocksHow do we respond when someone else gets what we want? We compare our situation to theirs. We measure our lot against theirs—especially if we think they have it better than we do.

Why can she eat whatever she wants and stay so skinny and I just look at a piece of chocolate and gain 5 pounds?

Why does she have that gorgeous face and I look so average?

Why can she barely study and make a 4.0, and I have to work so hard for a 2.5?

Why does she have such a beautiful voice and I can’t even carry a tune?

Why can she decorate and sew and paint and do photography, and I can’t even make a pillowcase?

Why does she get pregnant without trying and I am still infertile after all these years?

Why is she married at 20 and I am 35 with no man in sight?

Why does her husband lead their family and mine won’t initiate anything spiritual?

Why does she have a big beautiful home for just the two of them when our family of seven is still crammed into this little townhouse

Ever had thoughts like these?

I knew I wasn’t alone. Whenever we face things in our lives that we don’t want but can’t change, we are tempted to sinfully compare ourselves with others.

The apostle Peter was also tempted to compare. In our new series we’ll consider what the Lord said to Him, and what He says to us.

12
Mar

52home

2010 at 10:16 pm   |   by Janelle Bradshaw
Filed under Biblical Womanhood 52home

5:31 p.m.

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12
Mar

Friday Funnies

2010 at 8:57 pm   |   by Nicole Whitacre
Filed under Fun Stuff Friday Funnies

Thank you so much for all your responses about the beauty book. You’ve been a big help already. Keep the suggestions coming!

And we’re so glad you all have been lovin’ 52home. Janelle still owes us a picture today, I think; so check back soon.

Here are some funny moments two of our readers captured recently…

 

Anna’s nephew got tired of shopping and found a perfect spot to sit down.

perfect spot

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And this is how Nicole found her 22-month old Eli one night. “Maybe,” she wondered, “this is why rails for toddler beds exist.”

eli bed

11
Mar

Help Us Write a Book

2010 at 6:08 pm   |   by Nicole Whitacre   |   (0) Comments
Filed under Biblical Womanhood Beauty

The latest news here is that Mom began work on a new book last week!

Her topic is “true beauty” from a biblical perspective. She wants to help women see through our culture’s false standard of beauty and false promises about beauty, so they might be free to pursue a beauty that is attainable, enduring, and precious in God’s sight.
 
I get to help her with this project, and we want to ask for your help too.
 
For us, book writing involves a whole lot of talking. We bat around ideas, consider all the angles, and even have a friendly debate or two.
 
And we want you to join our book conversation! We’ll post questions, and we’d be so grateful if you’d write in with your thoughts. (Please note: we may use your first name, so let us know if you want to be anonymous.)
 
So, are you ready to help us write this book?
 
Here’s our first question:
 
What questions or struggles do you have that you would like to see addressed in a book on beauty?
 
Please contact us or leave a message on our facebook page and tell us what you’re thinking.
 
And can we also ask you to pray? Our hearts desire is that God be glorified in the process and content of this book. You’ve prayed us through one book already and we’d be most grateful for those prayers again. Thank you friends!

11
Mar

52home

2010 at 5:33 pm   |   by Janelle Bradshaw
Filed under Biblical Womanhood 52home

2:10 p.m. Afternoon Nap



 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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