2010 at 12:08 am | by Nicole Whitacre
Biblical Womanhood Fear Motherhood
Recently Justin Taylor posted the following from John Piper. It is worth re-posting here in its entirety:
* When I am anxious about some risky new venture or meeting, I battle unbelief with the promise: “Fear not for I am with you, be not dismayed for I am your God; I will help you, I will strengthen you, I will uphold you with my victorious right hand” (Isaiah 41:10).
* When I am anxious about my ministry being useless and empty, I fight unbelief with the promise, “So shall my word that goes forth from my mouth; it will not come back to me empty but accomplish that which I purpose, and prosper in the thing for which I sent it” (Isaiah 55:11).
* When I am anxious about being too weak to do my work, I battle unbelief with the promise of Christ, “My grace is sufficient for you, my power is made perfect in weakness” (2 Corinthians 12:9), and “As your days so shall your strength be” (Deuteronomy 33:25).
* When I am anxious about decisions I have to make about the future, I battle unbelief with the promise, “I will instruct you and teach you the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you” (Psalm 32:8).
* When I am anxious about facing opponents, I battle unbelief with the promise, “If God is for us who can be against us!” (Romans 8:31).
* When I am anxious about being sick, I battle unbelief with the promise that “tribulation works patience, and patience approvedness, and approvedness hope, and hope does not make us ashamed” (Romans 5:3–5).
* When I am anxious about getting old, I battle unbelief with the promise, “Even to your old age I am he, and to gray hairs I will carry you. I have made, and I will bear; I will carry and will save” (Isaiah 46:4).
* When I am anxious about dying, I battle unbelief with the promise that “none of us lives to himself and none of us dies to himself; if we live we live to the Lord and if we die we die to the Lord. So whether we live or die we are the Lord’s. For to this end Christ died and rose again: that he might be Lord both of the dead and the living” (Romans 14:9–11).
* When I am anxious that I may make shipwreck of faith and fall away from God, I battle unbelief with the promise, “He who began a good work in you will complete it unto the day of Christ” (Philippians 1:6). “He who calls you is faithful. He will do it” (1 Thessalonians 5:23). “He is able for all time to save those who draw near to God through him, since he always lives to make intercession for them” (Hebrews 7:25).
2010 at 10:36 pm | by Nicole Whitacre
Biblical Womanhood Fear Marriage
“[T]ake the…sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication.” Ephesians 6:17-18
To fight fear we are to “pray at all times.” But we have another weapon in our arsenal: the promises of God. We are to wield the Word against the onslaught of mothering fears.
We are to ”take” the Word of God and use it. To do this, we need to have it nearby. This means we need to be daily reading the Word and consistently meditating on it.
And we need to pull out the promises and put them into action. We have to pick up the sword and fight. A sword must be swung in order to deliver a blow.
We have a legacy of faithful, fear-fighting women to follow: “And you are [Sarah’s] children if you do good and do not fear anything that is frightening.” 1 Peter 3:6
John Piper writes: “[T]he daughters of Sarah fight the anxiety that rises in their hearts. They wage war on fear, and they defeat it with the promises of God.”
Let’s be daughters of Sarah and fight our mothering fears with the promises of God.
2010 at 3:27 pm | by Janelle Bradshaw
One girltalk baby here and one to go! Claire is absolutely adorable and it has been so much fun to see the Chesemore home invaded by pink and frills. Meanwhile the Bradshaw fam is eagerly awaiting the arrival of blue and dirt.
My official due date is November 21st which is the Sunday before Thanksgiving. What could be more perfect? I’m torn between a desire to go really early or really late. I’m hoping to avoid a Thanksgiving baby. I really want to be able to fully concentrate on my turkey dinner and from what I’ve experienced of our hospital cafeteria, well, let’s just say I’d like to be home for Thanksgiving.
At my appointment last week I was 2cm and 80% effaced. But that doesn’t really mean much in my case. MJ was 10 days late and I had progressed even more than that. I hold those stats really loosely and am preparing myself for another late delivery.
We have finally given this boy a name after months of calling him “baby brother.” Drum roll please…Michael Hudson Bradshaw! Michael cuz mommy wanted him to have the same name as daddy and Hudson just cuz we like it. We will call him Hudson. MJ has dubbed him “Pudson.”
We’ll be sure to let you know when Hudson decides to make his appearance. Thank you so much for all of your prayers and encouragement for Kristin and me during this exciting time.
2010 at 3:53 pm | by Carolyn Mahaney
“Gracious is the Lord.” Psalm 116:5
Sinclair Ferguson once asked the question: “How many of us will get to the throne and with a twinge of regret say ‘If only I had known You were this gracious’?”
Let’s have no regrets. Let’s live as if God is as good and gracious as He says He is!