Jan 31

Profitable for Mom

2011 at 3:51 pm   |   by Kristin Chesemore Filed under Marriage

The other day, my three boys tramped downstairs to the kitchen. They were arguing.

“He took my quarters!” my seven-year-old pointed to his brother.

“No, Mom, I brought these quarters home from Mom-Mom’s house!” the accused brother defended himself.

As I tried to get the story from them, one…at…a…time, the words of blame kept flowing, with frequent interruptions and scowls.

My temptation in these moments? I want to bring swift resolution through my commands and directives: “Boy #1 is wrong. Boy #2 is right. Case closed.” I want peace for myself more than I want to teach my children God’s Word.

But my words—although very important!—are not sufficient. My children need to hear God’s Words. They need Scripture, which is “profitable for teaching, correcting, and training in righteousness” (2 Tim. 3:16). They need God’s promises and commands sown like seed into their little hearts. They need the words from God’s mouth, which never return empty (Is. 55:11).

So we return to the most often quoted verse in the Chesemore home—Ephesians 4:29: “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.”

“Is corrupting talk coming out of your mouths?” I ask my boys. “What words would give grace to your brother?”

And surprise, surprise—Scripture serves me too. I need the life-giving words of Scripture as much as my sons. I too need the encouragement and correction of Ephesians 4:29.

This is one reason why I must sit and listen to Jesus’ teaching every day. So that I—and my boys—can profit from His Words.

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