Mar 22

The Trouble with Submission

2011 at 4:17 pm   |   by Carolyn Mahaney Filed under Marriage | Submission

“As the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.” (Eph. 5:22)

“Many are the discussions I’ve heard on this one, almost all of them directed to what it ‘can’t possibly mean,’ rather than to the plain word of the Lord. The statement is simple. Not easy for women like me, but simple, that is, I understand it only too well. (As Mark Twain said, ‘I have far more trouble with the things I do understand in the Bible than things I don’t understand.’)” Elisabeth Elliot

Why do we have trouble with the practice of submission? What is it about this command that can make us bristle? Even though we may accept, as Elisabeth Elliot does, the clarity of Scripture on the issue, we also can agree that submitting to our husbands is not always easy.

Certainly our culture presents us with a formidable challenge. It treats the submissive wife with a noxious mixture of scorn and pity. And it doesn’t help that many in the church are trying to explain away this command, thus cutting off a vital source of our encouragement.

But the real threat to submission comes from a place we may not initially expect. More on the source of our submission troubles tomorrow.

(adapted from Feminine Appeal)