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Young Children

  • Q&A: How Do You Focus on One Thing?Jan 28 2013 9:23 am

    Karissa wrote in with a great question:In a recent post you talked about “picking one thing” and being consistent about it in the discipline of a toddler. I guess

  • Just Choose OneJan 24 2013 9:37 am

    Over the last few months Hudson has crossed that threshold from baby to toddler. His speech has taken off, his comprehension level is higher. He’s not my baby anymore. But

  • Target the Heart In TimeJan 15 2013 8:17 am

    Targeting our children’s hearts is a very important goal in gospel-centered parenting. Ultimately, I want my children to understand that their hearts are sinful and that they need a

  • How Is Obedience a Gateway to Understanding the Gospel?Jan 10 2013 8:20 am

    One of the most powerful illustrations is from the relationship of Annie Sullivan and Helen Keller. You may know the story. Helen was a young girl who, at the

  • “Real Simple” MotheringJan 8 2013 7:21 am

    Whenever I get overwhelmed and mothering seems as complex as a calculus problem, my mom always helps me put things in perspective.  “Gospel-centered mothering at this stage is simple,”

  • From One Mom to Another: Don’t Grow WearyDec 18 2012 1:38 pm

    Our Aunt Betsy (Ricucci) is our dad’s sister and one of the most encouraging people you will ever meet. On Sunday at church she passed on some very encouraging

  • Teaching Our Children the Gospel Started With ObedienceDec 12 2012 11:25 am

    When we brought Jude and Sophie home—before we could even speak the same language—we had two simple priorities: show them we loved them, and teach them to obey. The

  • Merry Christmas, Because He CameDec 11 2012 10:10 am

    “Joy to the Word, the Lord is…LEFT?!” Mike, our children’s ministry director, made a discordant sound with his guitar to emphasize to our church’s four and five year olds

  • Obedience and Gospel-Centered MotheringDec 10 2012 12:50 pm

    As moms, we may be so afraid of raising little heathens of the self-righteous, legalistic, variety that we neglect to teach our children how to obey. Perhaps we grew

  • Gospel-Centered Child TrainingDec 4 2012 10:53 am

    “No scream.”“You may not hit.” “No throw.” “Come to mommy.” I spend all day saying stuff like this to my two-year-old son Hudson—simple sentences that rarely get above three

  • After Awful ErrandsOct 23 2012 4:00 pm

    “Just wanted to say thanks for Janelle’s post yesterday,” wrote one mom:“I just got home from an outrageously awful trip to run errands with my 5 and 3 year

  • Gospel-Centered Parenting For Real LifeOct 17 2012 2:08 pm

    My son, Hudson, will be two in November, and while he brings his family tons of joy, his sinful nature is on full display. He has mastered the art

  • The Answer to End All QuestionsOct 9 2012 10:17 am

    My son Jude asks lots of questions. As I understand it, this is common for children who have been adopted when they are older, and I totally get it.

  • “But the pace!” CS Lewis on Young ParentsJan 31 2012 5:28 pm

    Every mom of young, active, children (especially boys!) needs to take a minute to read these excerpts of letters from CS Lewis. The way he describes the whirlwind of

  • kidtalk ChristmasDec 9 2011 6:25 am

                            To all the kids around here, Janelle and her husband Mike are affectionately known as Mr. and

  • Doing What I CanFeb 15 2011 5:09 pm

    My little Claire is now over three months old—hard to believe! She has been such a sweet blessing to our family. This girlie is very loved (albeit a little

  • Parenting Little OnesJan 19 2011 3:56 pm

    Being a parent of young children can sometimes be a confusing experience. You face many new challenges that you don’t always know how to handle. Thankfully Scripture provides the

  • Q&A - Bedtime RoutineSep 8 2010 3:31 pm

    Q. How do I keep my child from getting out of bed multiple times every evening?A. I asked my mom about this recently because I needed an answer! I

  • Strength For a Weary MomAug 10 2010 2:28 pm

    We began this series by asking: “How does the mom with young kids make the best use of her time when she doesn’t feel like she has any time?”

  • “Walking With the Wise” GiveawayJun 22 2010 3:59 pm

    The new Sovereign Grace kid’s album, Walking With the Wise, debuted this week and today we have ten CD’s to give away. Hmmm…maybe we’ll start that girltalk music department

  • Summer PlansMay 24 2010 2:41 pm

    School is almost out and it’s time to make summer plans—swimming and biking, eating dinner on the back porch, and berry picking (I guess Janelle has already gone to

  • Going Bye-ByeMar 18 2010 5:25 pm

    As any mom with small children will tell you, “getting out the door” is an exercise in craziness and chaos. Screaming fits and blow-out diapers, lost keys and runaway

  • Womanly Dominion.The Gospel.Our Children.Oct 8 2009 9:10 am

    Your mission, dear mother, is not to make your children happy, but to prepare them for eternity…You must relentlessly evangelize their never-dying souls.” (Womanly Dominion p. 127-128)In chapter eight

  • Fool Moon RisingSep 14 2009 1:09 pm

    On Thursday we received a special new book from Pop-Pop: Fool Moon Rising by Kristi Fluharty and T. Lively Fluharty; so I took a break from school to read to

  • Family Talk and a GiveawaySep 8 2009 12:29 pm

    On Sunday evening the Mahaney clan gathered at Dad and Mom’s house for dinner. The weather was mild, so we ate outside on the patio and sat around talking

  • Monsters Under the BedAug 12 2009 1:44 pm

    My three-year-old Caly often wakes up screaming in the dead of night. Jolted out of sleep, I run to her room as fast as I can only to be

  • Battle at the BradshawsNov 13 2008 3:47 pm

    A small battle broke out in the Bradshaw house on Sunday. Caly refused to eat a bite of her toast. No, I didn’t say peas or green beans. We

  • Waiting With LiamSep 26 2007 6:25 pm

    My middle son Liam can’t wait for his birthday to get here. He’ll be five. And he’ll get to go to Noodles and Co. for his favorite buttered noodles

  • The little white bear and some mannersFeb 7 2007 5:01 pm

    “Children learn manners mostly by example. It’s only when they don’t pick up on some detail that we must point out their lapses…manners are a cut-to-the-chase way of teaching

  • RoutineTalk: Some Concluding RemarksJun 23 2006 9:01 am

    As we draw this series to a close, we want to leave you with a few thoughts: -A schedule is meant to serve, not rule. When it doesn’t serve,

  • RoutineTalk: For School-Age ChildrenJun 22 2006 10:24 am

    At the beginning of every school year and at the start of every summer holiday, I create a new schedule for Chad. Then I sit down with him and

  • RoutineTalk: Other MomsJun 21 2006 11:19 am

    Wouldn’t you just love to have coffee with a few experienced moms who could answer all your questions about putting your children on a schedule? While we wish we

  • RoutineTalk: For Multiple ChildrenJun 19 2006 9:35 am

    Andrew just finished kindergarten! Actually, I feel like I just finished kindergarten or Homeschool 101.  The fact that Andrew can now read and that I have survived the school

  • RoutineTalk: For ToddlersJun 16 2006 9:32 am

    “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.” Ecclesiastes 3:1 Jack’s life is not so simple as Caly’s. He’s a three-year-old boy. (I

  • RoutineTalk: For Babies, Pt. 2Jun 15 2006 9:06 am

    Caly leads a simple life.  She sleeps, she eats, and she has awake time.  That’s it. Her life is a constant three-hour cycle of eat/wake/sleep and in that order.

  • RoutineTalk: For BabiesJun 14 2006 10:39 am

    Before Yahoo shuts down our email account due to the flood of requests for us to share HOW to put a baby on a schedule, let me set your

  • Audio Resources for ParentsJun 13 2006 4:52 pm

    Here at girltalk we scour the internet daily, diligently searching for biblical resources to encourage you in biblical womanhood. I wish. Scouring the bathroom floor is more like it.

  • RoutineTalk: Wake-Up TimeJun 13 2006 11:38 am

    A mom wrote: I hope that a hundred people ask you this so you answer.  How do you teach a toddler to stay in bed until 7:00?  I have

  • RoutineTalk: For the MomJun 12 2006 12:51 pm

    The word “schedule” doesn’t always conjure up fun and exciting feelings for me. Sometimes it can seem easier to sort of let life happen. But I have learned—and am

  • RoutineTalk: For the HusbandJun 9 2006 4:17 pm

    Gone are the days of spontaneous dinners out, midnight walks around the block, and sleeping in.  For Mike and me, these are the days of dinners in, midnight feedings,

  • RoutineTalk: For The ChildrenJun 8 2006 1:29 pm

    “The children were always put into a regular method of living, in such things as they were capable of, from their birth.” Susanna Wesley Mom pointed out yesterday that,

  • RoutineTalkJun 7 2006 9:44 am

    Those of you who have read my book, Feminine Appeal, know that when I gave birth to my first baby (Nicole), I had no clue how to care for

  • Just a SuggestionJun 6 2006 10:53 am

    Epidural vs. Natural Child Birth. College vs. No College. Breast-feeding vs. Bottle Feeding. Courtship vs. Dating. Child Immunizations vs. Homeopathic Medicine. Home Schooling vs. Private or Public Schooling. Birth

  • Q & A—“Quiet Times for Kids”Jan 4 2006 10:14 pm

    We’ve received several questions recently related to devotions for younger children. This time of year, many parents not only set goals for their own quiet times, but consider how

  • Q & A - SantaDec 14 2005 10:43 am

    Q. It happened again today. We were at the doctor’s office when a well-meaning secretary told my son that “Santa was watching.” My son had a puzzled “are you

  • Q & A - Grandparents on a Different PageDec 7 2005 5:20 pm

    Q.  My parents are Christians but don’t share our convictions regarding how we raise our children (teaching the kids to obey, respect Daddy, careful about TV viewing, not promoting

  • Activities for KidsSep 23 2005 4:00 pm

    Fall provides a variety of memorable activity options for young children. Here are three simple ideas you may remember from when you were a child: 1. Pine cone bird

  • Children Celebrating the SeasonsSep 19 2005 5:00 pm

    Like many Christian children growing up, we didn’t participate in Halloween or get visits from the Easter bunny. But that didn’t mean we missed out on all the fun.

  • Q & A - Video Games, pt. 2Sep 8 2005 12:22 pm

    Yesterday we heard from pastor’s wife and mom Valori Maresco about the matter of video games in their home. Today, we listen in as another mom and pastor’s wife,

  • Q & A - Video GamesSep 7 2005 3:25 pm

    This week’s question is regarding an all-too-common issue confronted by parents today: video games... Q. My boys love playing video games on their dad’s x-box—the sports games in particular.

  • Hint for Blanket TimeSep 5 2005 5:22 pm

    In response to my post last week where I passed on one mother’s suggestion for “blanket time,” our friend Tawn O’Connor sent in a wise caution from her own

  • Back to school…or notSep 1 2005 5:58 pm

    It’s that time of year again: Back to school. Of course, I’m not going back to school and my two-year old Jack isn’t quite ready yet (maybe next year?),

  • A Mother’s RestAug 30 2005 6:13 pm

    I was lying awake on the couch the other night, listening to my one-year-old Owen’s raspy respirations. He had a bad cold and I was little anxious about how

  • A TributeAug 23 2005 2:28 pm

    This is going to be a fun day…I have the run of the blog!  Mom and Nicole are heading out of town and Kristin is just returning from a

  • Yellow Trashcans and Old MacDonald’s FarmAug 22 2005 6:19 pm

    Saturday was our final chance to attend the annual Montgomery County Agricultural Fair. And so, ignoring a heat advisory, scoffing at all the cleaning and painting I needed to

  • Gateway for KnowledgeAug 22 2005 12:22 pm

    Last Thursday night occasioned another one of my husband’s surprises. He’s provided a gazillion of them for me through the years. He simply told me what time to be

  • Q & A - Spiritual Disciplines for Young ChildrenAug 17 2005 4:47 pm

    We received another question regarding the spiritual disciplines and children: "At what age did you and C.J. really start encouraging your children to be having quiet times on their

  • Q & A - Correcting Young ChildrenAug 3 2005 3:42 pm

    A mother of school age children wrote to ask: “Would you be able to provide a sample conversation that you might have with your child when they have done

  • Public Service AnnouncementJun 27 2005 9:16 am

    One of our “Philly Friends,” Jeanne Welch, wrote to congratulate me on being “found” last week. She related an experience we thought you all should hear about—just in case

  • There she is!Jun 24 2005 9:26 am

    Looks like we found Kristin.  She’s right where I thought she would be, taking great care of her kiddos (my nephews!).  You’re the best, Kess!

  • Where’s Kristin?Jun 23 2005 12:18 pm

    Where am I, Janelle?Here’s where I am… I’m in our bedroom, trying to stay awake during morning devotions.I’m in the kitchen, pouring bowls of Rice Krispies. I’m in the